Alright. A friend of mine talked me into listing what some of my interests in BDSM/sexual are on here. lol. And of course quite a few of these will find their way into my stories.
And most of these I am intereted in topping and bottoming.
Spanking,Flogging,Hairpulling,Bootworship,(havn’t actually tried this yet!) forced cock worship, (also curious about forced pussy worship as well.Oh and oral being done to me, does nothing for me.) Breast smothering, (Smothering someone with my boobies. MMmm lovely thought!) Breath Play. (In limited doses, and not with someone I do not know well.) Animal Play (No, not bestality. eww. I mean where someone roleplays as an animal. I am a kitty by the way.) Genital Torture, Chest/Breast Torture, Anal Play, (Butt plugs, dildos, willing to check out enemas, Sounds….) Bondage, such as Kinbaku,(Shibari is a type of Kinbaku.) As well metal bondage, whether it is just cuffs, or a metal bondage apparatus. Begging, (Bottoming only on this one. Someone begging me, just annoys me.) Tickling, (both just tickling for the hell of it, and tickle torture.) Caning, Cropping. Fisting, (Havn’t tried it yet on ethier end. lol. no pun intended!) Edgy stuff such as knives,scapels,needles,(which I have had done, and enjoyed it.) Objectification,(like being used as an object, such as a table, footstool. or being used as a ‘sex doll’ ) Chastity/Orgasm Control, Collar and Leash, Wax Play, Fire Play, (havn’t tried this yet.) Vacuum Stimulation, (would lovvvvvvvvvve to try this!) Cuckolding, (topping or bottoming in this type of scene.) Daddy/lg, I am interested in being a slave, but of course with the right person. The concept of Daddy being both Daddy and Master to me appeals to me. Switchy dynamics, (lol. That would be a mindfuck in of it’s self, Daddy telling me it’s my turn to Dominate hym. MMmmm.) As well as service topping. Wrestling, Take Down Play, Rough Sex, Name Calling, (Slut, Bitch,etc.)Queer Poly Household appeals to me strongly. Both joining a poly household,(though not necessarily living with them.) and having a poly household.
Somethings that I find sexy, and don’t necessarily have to do with kink, but may be talked about on here and/or incorporated into a story:
Burlesque, Drag king,Steampunk,Angels, Demons, Dragons,Gryphons, Phoenix, Kitsune, Were Beasts, Vampires,(Not into Twilight or Vampire Diaries.) Tattoos, Piercings, Goth, Some Hippy stuff, (though I am not a pacifist.) Archery,Guns (somewhat. And no, I do not mean any sort of ‘Gun Play’ In regarding Guns I am very serious, and I adhere to protocol and safety!) Target shooting, Darts, Knife throwing, Knives and Sword collecting, (got quite a few already.) Yoga, Vegatarianism, ( Lightly and only for health reasons.) Getting a Tattoo or Piercing in a ritual setting, sex/bdsm play in a ritual setting. Shock Value, (probably will blog about what appeals to me about it.) Religious Discussion, (as long as the other person doesn’t try to convince me to convert.) Cults, (reading about them, watch tv shows on it.)
I like some cutsy-ish aspects of Goth/Punk. Not crazy about alot of goth-associated music,(like Trance.) Not inclined to use hairspray, gel,mousse or any other product that could damage my hair. Well…exept for hair dye, but have found some that are ok. Examples are ‘Mandy’ from Billy and Mandy’s Grim Adventures, ‘Elmira’ from Tiny Toons, (though don’t wanna break my toys like her, and not quite that obnoxiously cute.lol) Germaine from Foamy The Squirrel online cartoons. (I also love Animaniacs, but no direct correlation.)
Music wise- I am all over the place when it comes to music. it all depends on what I am in the mood to listen to. Abney Park,(steampunkish look, Mid Eastern influences, Burlesque-ish at times.) Everly Brothers, Madonna, Cyndi Lauper, Shonen Knife,Sublime, Simon and Garfunkel, Moody Blues, Within Temptation, Omnia, 2 songs from Eluveitie, (Omnos and Brictom.) The Gathering, Pendulum, Peter, Paul and Mary, Dan Folgalberg, Crosby, Stills and Nash,(and occasionally Young.) Toby Keith, Cledus T. Judd, ‘Weird Al’ Yankovich, Nightwish, Lacuna Coil, Hammerfall, Meatloaf, Gaelic Storm, The Brobdingnagian Bards, Emerald Rose, Spiral Rhythm, Kiva, The Shining Wheel Pagan Chorus, Michelle Mays, Anne Hill, Inkubus Sukkubus, Craig Olson,……just to name a few.